Getting Dressed After Having a Child

 

There’s no secret that after having a child, a woman’s body changes.

And at some point, someone always asks: “So… when does the belly go away?”

 

The honest answer is: it depends.

Bodies, recoveries, pregnancies, and lives are different.

You often hear “give it a year”, and maybe that’s true. But what are we supposed to wear in the meantime? Oversized loungewear for twelve months?

 

Thanks, but no.

 

I’m still in that in-between year. I don’t comfortably fit into my old clothes yet, and I didn’t want to get stuck wearing the same soft trousers every day, even though they’re comfortable.

 

So I decided to adjust my wardrobe to my current reality, not wait for a future version of my body. Understanding which colours truly suit me also helped me choose pieces I felt good wearing now, not later. personal colour analysis

 

 

A Full Wardrobe Review

 

I started with a full clear-out.

 

Some of my old cocktail dresses, favourites, but from a different chapter, went to family. Not because they couldn’t fit me again, but because it felt right to refresh what “cocktail me” looks like now.

 

Other pieces were donated or recycled.

 

What remained were clothes I could genuinely see myself wearing again in the coming years and not “maybe one day” clothes.

 

 

Choosing Clothes for the In-Between

 

I added a few flowy, loose-fit pieces to my wardrobe.

 

Satin dresses in particular became favourites. They’re elegant, comfortable, forgiving, and surprisingly versatile, easy to wear with a jumper in winter and perfect for days when I don’t want to think about my stomach at all.

 

I also leaned into current trends that actually work for this phase:

• Oversized jackets and shirts

• Wide-fit trousers

I try to buy pieces that I’ll be happy wearing, whether my body stays the same or changes again, so that I can wear them for longer. Choosing forgiving silhouettes was easier once I stopped guessing which colours worked for me and focused on building outfits that felt cohesive. Find your colours

 

 

About Exercise (Gently)

 

Weight isn’t the only thing that changes after having a child.

Core strength, posture, and stability matter more than we often realise.

 

For me, short, regular home workouts are more effective than going to the gym. I don’t have to commit to a specific timetable, or prepare a gym bag, or commute to the gym. Even a few minutes every other day helps.

 

Before starting, I visited a physiotherapist because I had a four-finger abdominal separation. Understanding what was happening in my body and which exercises were safe made all the difference. It gave me confidence, progress, and motivation to keep going.

 

 

A Quiet Conclusion

 

This isn’t about “getting your body back”.

It’s about dressing the body you’re living in now, with respect.

 

You don’t have to wait.

You don’t have to hide.

And you don’t have to stay in loungewear unless you want to.

 

These are the kinds of small, everyday wardrobe decisions many women talk through together inside Chromatastic. Request to Join Chromatastic community

 

A small note

I’ve opened a small WhatsApp founders circle for women who are navigating wardrobe changes, colour questions, and buying decisions in real life, not perfection.

 

It’s a quiet, supportive space where we share questions like:

• “Does this colour work for me right now?”

• “Would you buy this?”

• “Why does this outfit feel off?”

 

If this resonates, you’re welcome to join.

 

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